We can only begin to imagine the weight of the decision you are carrying, and the love, strength, and selflessness it asks of you. Please know we hold it with all the reverence it deserves. This is our promise to you: we will do everything in our power to raise your child with all the love, patience, and devotion we have to give. You will always be part of their story — and part of ours.
Two worlds,
one home.
We met in college — two people from completely different worlds and very different families. Lindsey grew up in a big, tight-knit family with everyone always around the table; James came from a smaller, more scattered one. Somehow those two beginnings fit together, and we’ve been side by side ever since.
James carries a story close to his heart: as a boy, he was adopted by his dad — a choice his father made so that James and his mom could have the best life possible. As a grown man, James has come to understand and treasure the sacrifices both of his fathers made for him. It’s part of why adoption means so much to us — we know, first-hand, how much love it takes, and how much love it gives.
Faith is another quiet thread that ties us together. Lindsey is a cradle Catholic, raised in the Church her whole life, and across the years of our relationship she shared that faith with James, gently and without pressure. He was baptized as an adult — a choice of his own. Fittingly, James’s dad was a cradle Catholic too, yet he always wanted James to decide for himself, as a grown man, what he believes: roots to stand on, and the freedom to choose — the very kind of love we hope to give our own child.