We can only begin to imagine the weight of the decision you are carrying, and the love, strength, and selflessness it asks of you. Please know we hold it with all the reverence it deserves. This is our promise to you: we will do everything in our power to raise your child with all the love, patience, and devotion we have to give. You will always be part of their story — and part of ours. Your child will grow up in a household filled with love, laughter, and celebrations for every milestone and we hope to be able to share those moments with you. We want to make sure your child knows how unconditionally loved they are by every person in their life, especially you, the one who made the hardest decision.
Two worlds,
one home.
We met in college in Louisiana— two people from completely different worlds and very different families. Lindsey grew up in a big, tight-knit family with everyone always around the table; James came from a smaller, more scattered one. Somehow those two beginnings fit together, and we’ve been side by side ever since.
Even growing up, the world felt wide to both of us. Lindsey was raised in a military family, and life on the move gave her an early window into different places and people — a steady stream of chances to explore, adapt, and see things through a wider lens, which still shapes the curious, open-hearted woman she is today. James moved a few times in his own childhood, too, and those changes gave him his own perspective on home, change, and what it means to put down roots.
James carries a story close to his heart: as a boy, he was adopted by his dad — a choice his father made so that James and his mom could have the best life possible. As a grown man, James has come to understand and treasure the sacrifices both of his fathers made for him. It’s part of why adoption means so much to us — we know, first-hand, how much love it takes, and how much love it gives. Lindsey has felt adoption close to her heart for as long as she can remember — she grew up surrounded by friends who had been adopted, and always carried a quiet calling to adopt one day. Having both grown up with adoption woven through their lives, the two of us have always felt the same gentle pull toward it.
Faith is another quiet thread that ties us together. Lindsey is a cradle Catholic, raised in the Church her whole life, and across the years of our relationship she shared that faith with James, gently and without pressure. He was baptized as an adult, in his own time and on his own terms — and that shared faith is something we look forward to passing on to our child.